Its quite good to be know about your dear ones intentions. Sometime may you get struck after knowing their feelings. Its a painful thing when you found wrong to yourself about others. I don't want to suggest you that what should you have to behave after all that, but you are near to feel guilty! make sure its your last step to continuance to keep hold that relation again with very warmness. let I told you about my tragedy. Its a week ago, when i met to my little sister, i found she almost lost her feelings towards me, what she have a month before. I asked her what the reason are of it? she just replied, "nothing bro its your intention." I said, "if this is mine so what's your? as before we'd promised to each other to keep hold our relation in any situations, now i don't think your are really keeping that" she get silent and after a while she replied, "it doesn't matter bro who want to keep it or not, I feel it shouldn't be necessary to keeping your relation in a single mode ever, sometime it get neutral and more than it." Then I goes to understand what the really matter does being ourselves. There was a time when i was vital for her, now some little reasons or misunderstandings make a huge change in her intention. Now I decided I will again eager this relation like before and I almost start working for being again vital for her.